Actually, the electrons never speed up or slow down. They always move at the speed of light between atoms. The heat raises resistance because atoms get further apart, and the higher the resistance gets, the more heat is generated. At the point where the power becomes too much for the material to disipate, temperatures spike and the material is destroyed (maximum wattage).
It's not really that the processor is so hot that it stops functioning; rather, that the transistors can't switch fast enough to maintain a good signal strength. Operation becomes unstable because the signal becomes unclear.
(If you've not used an oscilloscope, this will probably not make any sense, but here you go) In a digital circuit, you need a uniform squarewave. Where there is the degradation of the signal from runing the cpu too fast, you can counter it by oversaturating the signal. So long as you can keep it cool, you can do so safely. (since upping the voltage will obviously raise the temp by creating more current flow)
Just incase: I wasn't trying to "flame" auld with that. I'm sorry if I came across that way...